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OCTOBER 2026 · GREENSBORO · TRIAD

THE PACK REPORT

Your weekly SheWolf dispatch: events, updates & things worth knowing.

A note from me. Not into it? Scroll right past, no hard feelings.

I’m writing this on Sunday night after spending the morning at Peacehaven Farm. Two of our members hosted October’s book club, and it was POURING. Wet, muddy, all of it. And somehow that was perfect, because y’all still showed up. By the end, the sun opened up and we got a quick tour of the new space they are building.

Inside the renovated barn, the candles were lit, cinnamon tea was steeping, the cheese boards were gorgeous, and we sat in cozy circles while rain dripped down every window. It was just us. Quiet and sweet.

It’s always a LITERAL treat for me to show up to something you put together. I get to soak it in and be a receiver in the village for once. And every single time, it’s better than anything I could have dreamed up. It reminds me why the hell we are doing this. This is the village, and it’s better, stronger, more creative and more sustainable when you are front and center, leading in ways that work for you.

On the drive over I was on the phone with my brother, and he asked why I would even want to go to book club. Sounds boring, he said. I had to explain that in a lot of ways, book clubs are the most fun, most invigorating events we have.

We were there to talk about Circe. Imma be honest... I didn’t finish it. Neither did three other people. Zero judgment. Read it or not, it’s a story about womanhood, motherhood, betrayal, vengeance and all the complicated layers of existing as a woman, mortal or not. It tells the witch’s side of the Odyssey, and it turns out she might have had her reasons.

That conversation opened up into family of origin. Feeling good enough. Feeling like you belong. When we need to isolate, and when we need to let our village in instead of pushing them away. We talked about how hard it is to do what we know we need for ourselves, especially when it costs extra time and extra money.

I sat back with a little grin, because that’s the truest story for all of us. As women, we are not singular. We are so many things. That’s why the SheWolf Pack is not singular either. We hold so many phases of the journey as female-identifying folks, and so many stories of belonging and feeling left out, of love and hurt, of feeling scared and feeling in control. Sitting in that barn, I saw the whole picture of what we’re building.

Then, without any prompting from me, the conversation turned to why these women love this space we’ve all created together. I’m probably somewhere in my cycle where the weepiness runs high, but I cried. I can’t repeat it as beautifully as they said it. Women who have been part of this for all different lengths of time gave the strongest proof that this is needed and this is real. And that the less we try, the more people feel it. You just have to show up and experience it.

I can write these letters and post on social, and we will keep doing that, because we want you here. But they described a different kind of energy when they come to something we host, compared to their kids’ school, work events, or other circles of friends, mom friends and work friends. Here they get to be 100% themselves in every category. It doesn’t matter what their hair looks like, what they’re wearing, or whether they’re having a good day.

I felt so honored to share that space with them. This letter ran a little long, and I’m okay with that. You needed to hear about the beauty that is all of you.

P.S. I'm also gearing up for the fall retreat and I am super stoked to be getting my cowgirl attire together.

- Jordan

🤝 This Month’s Featured Nonprofit

Peacehaven Farm

Peacehaven Farm in Whitsett is all about “connecting people of all abilities through shared living, learning, work, and play.” Here is how to show up for them.

Ways To Support

Donate. Give to Peacehaven

See their events. The Harvest Celebration is Sunday, 10/25, 3 to 5 PM. Live music, games, art, food and drinks. See all their events

Volunteer. Harvest Celebration shifts run 2 to 4 and 4 to 6. Volunteer with Peacehaven

Look at what they are building. Their Different Together campaign is building a multipurpose, uniquely accessible Community Center. See the campaign

Official SheWolf Hosted Events and Meetups

📅 Upcoming Events

Here is what is on the calendar this fall. RSVP in the app so we know to look for you.

New here? Every event listed is open to everyone in the app, unless it says Members Only in the title.

October

Thu 10/15 to Sun 10/18

Wild Women Fall Retreat
Massanutten, VA.

Sat 10/24

Hike: Crockett Trail at Lake Townsend
Easy water views close to home. RSVP in the app.

Sun 10/25, 3:00 PM

Harvest Celebration at Peacehaven Farm
Our nonprofit of the month, and it has been so delightful getting to know what they are doing. PLEASE go. We moved kickball so we would not compete with this one.

Tue 10/27, 8:30 AM

Coffee + Connection
Chandler’s. Same drill, new month. Free.

November

Sun 11/1

Costume Kickball (NEW DATE)
Moved to November 1, because we know you need another day’s use out of your costumes. Family friendly, trophies for best costume, candy for every kid. Details in the app. (Another reason to own a Dolly wig.)

Thu 11/12

Howl Hour at Freeman’s
The LAST Howl Hour of 2026. Come send it off right.

Fri 11/13

Northside Coffee + Connection at Arboro
MATCHA, then cowork after. Arboro is perfect for this month’s theme. It feels like home, it feels like come as you are, and you can stay all day.

December

Wed 12/16

Cookie Exchange (Members Only)
Save the date. Details in the app.

Crafternoons and a watercolor night at Marshall Muse are both coming in October, dates landing soon.

Lead the Meetup You Want

Some coffee meetup changes are coming. Our official SheWolf coffee in 2027 will likely rotate locations so it gets closer to everyone’s hood.

And PLEASE, lead the meetups you want to see. A watercolor class, coffee on Tuesdays, whatever you want. I may not be able to make it, and that is okay. This space is for meeting up with anyone who can come. Hit up an Alpha or me, tell us what you want to do, and we will add it to the app. It can be a one-off or a standing thing.

Grab the How to Host Your Own guide in the app. You own it (app + venue communication), and for paid events attendees pay the venue directly. Pro tip: grab a friend to co-host!

This is all teaching me that the more I let you all shine, the better this whole thing gets. You should not be tied to only my organizing and my calendar. All we ask is that everyone stays on top of their RSVPs, so whoever is organizing can prepare.

Next Up: Holiday THANGS

Stay tuned. Wild to think we need to get these on the books already, but it’s REALLL:

• Members-only Friendsgiving

• ALL SheWolf holiday party, partners and friends welcome

• Members-only cookie exchange. SAVE THE DATE: Wednesday, 12/16.

Not in the pack yet? You can still join now and come to these things. Join the pack

Next Retreat Announced 11.11

Meet the Team

It has been a while since we introduced ourselves. These are the women who keep this pack running. Say hi when you see them.

Founder

Jordan Lacenski Started SheWolf in 2016. Co-hosts the downtown Coffee + Connection.

The Alphas

Ashlee Wagner Retreats.

Sophia Parker Swag. Co-designed The Wild Magic drop. Co-hosts the northside Coffee + Connection.

Harsha Mirchandani Nonprofit program. Co-hosts the northside Coffee + Connection.

Carla Vilton MOVE events.

Emily Purcell Nonprofit program. Owner of Freeman’s, home of Howl Hour. Co-hosts the downtown Coffee + Connection.

Amanda Marley Swag. Co-designed The Wild Magic drop.

Zitty Nxumalo Community building, strategy and expansion.

Sruthi Ranjani Content and social.

Our Regular Hosts

Cristina
Hike lead for the Hike Series.

Carey Ann Watkins
Crafternoons host.

Deandra
Co-hosts the northside Coffee + Connection.

☕ New Perk: Your First Bag of Loom Coffee Is FREE

Loom Coffee Co. is a worker-owned roastery right here in Greensboro, and they are giving SheWolf members a free first bag of The Rotation, their coffee membership.

Every bag is a different single-origin coffee, roasted in Greensboro and shipped within 48 hours of roasting. You only pay when an order ships, and you can skip, pause or cancel anytime.

No code needed. Members, check the Perks space in the APP for your link.

Open the App

🔥 The Wild Magic Drop Is Still Live

We are a coven of wolves.

And y’all are LOVING it. The Wild Magic drop has already outsold every previous drop. Witches be crazy and we love it.

🏙️ City Highlight: Things Happening in the Triad

A note about the Community Calendar: it's there for YOU. Use it.

When you're looking for something to do this weekend, check it first. Buy the candle, grab a seat at the show, bring a friend. Support each other. Here's some of what's on it right now. Open the Community Calendar

Every Week

Thursdays, 10:00 AM

Baby & Me Thursday Meetups
Arbor Empowerment. Pediatric specialists drop in. Free with code arborobaby.

Several Fridays

Stomp Box
Alpha Sophia’s husband’s 90s cover band, playing all the classics. Oden on 10/30 and Garage Tavern on 11/7. RSVP in the app so they can look out for you.

Free for everyone

The Calendar Pass

No card, no trial clock. This is yours just for being here.

The full calendar and event RSVPs.

Community Chat, SheWolf Events, Start Here and SheWolf Gives.

All eight Identity and Interest Spaces: Business Babes, Make Good Trouble, Health + Wellness, Grey Wolves, Mama Wolves, Help Each Other, Book Club and Pass It On.

🐾 Members only

$99 A Year

What is on the other side of the door.

Pack Chat. The private member room, and the only members-only room left in SheWolf.

A member rate on every retreat. Plus first dibs before they open to anyone else.

20% off the store, plus the private member merch shop and the Triad NC line you cannot get anywhere else.

The Perks space. Every partner code lives in there.

First in line. Swag drops and member event RSVPs before the rest of the pack.

A vote. You pick which nonprofits SheWolf features.

Quarterly member dinners. Small tables, phones down.

Spring retreat details first. Before the public ever hears about it.

Rather go month to month? That works too, and your first month is free.

Not a Member Yet? Join the SheWolf Pack

A local community of like-minded women. More than a membership, it's a movement.

💛 Before you go

If Money Is the Thing

If the membership fee is the reason you are not in, tell me. If a retreat is the thing you actually want and the number is the thing stopping you, tell me. We keep a scholarship fund for exactly this. It is real money, and it is there to be used.

Here is how it works. As the fund gets filled, we hand it right back out. Somebody covers a seat, somebody else sits in it, usually within weeks. That is the whole system.

Which means two things. If the fund is empty the day you ask, ask anyway, because it fills back up. And if you give to it, your money goes straight out the door to a woman who needs it.

Apply for a scholarship. Membership or retreat, same form, and it is between you and me. shewolf.co/scholarship

Gift someone a membership. If you have ever thought "she needs this pack," you can just give it to her. Message me in Community Chat and I will set it up.

Or pay one forward quietly. Cover a membership or a retreat seat for someone you will never be introduced to. It goes straight back out to whoever is next in line. No names, no announcement, not ever.

Nobody gets left out of this pack over money.

🐾 How to upgrade

Ready to Move Up?

On the Calendar Pass or the monthly plan and ready for more? You can switch without canceling anything.

1. Go to shewolfco.mn.co and log in.

2. Open your Personal Settings, then Plans and Access.

3. Pick the plan you want.

Upgrades happen right away. Moving from a paid plan? You get a prorated refund for the unused time on your old one.

Heads up: switch through Plans and Access, not a join link. Buying through a join link starts a second plan, and you would be paying for both.

A Note About RSVPs

It’s a HARD balance.

We want you to come as you are and listen to your body. Always.

We also plan every event around RSVPs. Some are a trip, and some take a lot of work to pull together. So just be cool: edit your RSVP anytime, no questions asked. Just give us a heads up.

Some events need your RSVP a bit earlier, so check the event page in the app.